Let the bad times roll…over all your dreams and wishes.

Recently I’ve had a few blisteringly bad days. You know this pain, too, surely: they aren’t hair-related or job-related or anything fixed with a good cookie or cry; it’s Big Stuff. And that’s never fun, albeit part of this whole being alive thing. {Is it actually possible to reach the zen place I imagine Tina Fey inhabiting, … Continue reading Let the bad times roll…over all your dreams and wishes.

Come on, summer. These books and snacks aren’t going to gobble themselves.

Let’s start with the storms. Six days in a row of leaden clouds and crackling sky. The first day I was on a neighborhood walk at dawn when a gentle sprinkle turned, within minutes, to a heaving downpour. I ran home, thrilled to be the only person outside, the only person seemingly awake. I stood on … Continue reading Come on, summer. These books and snacks aren’t going to gobble themselves.

Nice to meet you?

I have learned, over time, that one of the most enlightening experiences is watching a loved one try to explain you to other people. In the months since Evans and I married, I’ve met some of his friends for the first time. And inevitably, because he is an intentional person and wants his comrades to know the real Julie, conversations … Continue reading Nice to meet you?

Ordinary Intimacies

Sharing a revolving door vestibule with a stranger Licking an envelope in public Someone choosing the adjacent public restroom stall when they’re all empty Leaning over a student’s shoulder Parking next to a car the exact same make and model as a former love’s Riding elevators with only one other person Being complimented on one’s perfume or … Continue reading Ordinary Intimacies